In short, yes.
At a funeral the body is present in a coffin or casket and at a memorial there is no body present. *A casket is rectangular in shape and a coffin is wider at the top and tapers at the feet*.
A funeral is *typically* but not always a more formal event that includes religious or cultural rituals. A burial or cremation will take place following a funeral service. Funerals are generally held at a chapel, church, funeral home or graveside. Contrary to popular belief, a funeral does *not* have to be held within a short period after death. You do not need to rush to have your person buried or cremated, unless there are specific cultural or religious reasons to do so.
Memorials are sometimes less formal, take place after burial or cremation has occurred and may also include the ashes being present (but not always).
Memorials are often focussed on celebrating the life of the person by sharing tributes and memories rather than a formal eulogy (time line and accomplishments of a person’s life). The timing of a memorial can be held at any time so can offer some flexibility, particularly if family and friends are travelling great distances.
There is no right or wrong when it comes to choosing a funeral or memorial. The aim is to create a service that is meaningful and heartfelt for the deceased person. It is also an opportunity to gather, share in collective grief and support the living.
